Thursday, August 20, 2015

A Trip Down Memory Lane

Yesterday it was nine years that we moved here to the farm. Nine years that God totally rearranged our plans, uprooted us from our dreams, took us on a wild ride of faith, and dropped us on a perfect little farm for us. Oh, but we didn't know that then. 

When we married in 2000, we bought an old 3 bedroom trailer. Several years later, we bought several acres of "junk" farmland on a funny shaped hill, and Leon began making something beautiful out of that pile of dirt with a bulldozer. We moved the old trailer on the land, and settled in. The long-term plan was to build a house, live in the basement, eventually finish the top part of the house, and we'd be all set. We could raise our family on 2 acres in the country, surrounded by corn fields, and gravel roads. It would be the perfect life for us.

Then a young man from the community came knocking on our door. He had a 3 acre hog farm he wanted to sell to us badly. We had 2 little boys and were expecting our 3rd child by fall. This was in the spring. We told him we weren't interested.

Several months later, he stopped by again. This time we decided to ask a few people for advice. Everywhere we turned, people were encouraging us to go for it. What??!! This was not in our plans at all.

After several sleepless nights for Leon, (I was pregnant, remember, and nothing kept me awake!) lots of seeking advice and ultimately begging God to show us, we decided to buy the farm.

We got possession on August 9, 2006. My sister and husband from Wisconsin came and spent 10 days with us, working like crazy to get our farm ready to move on to. I was 8 months pregnant, and not up to a lot of physical activity. 

The house had been lived in by a bachelor for 3-4 years, and needed paint, and lots of scrubbing. My efficient sister organized painting crews and did a ton of painting herself. My entire Bontrager family came for a whole day and whacked weeds as high as the barn, mowed, washed and bleached the basement, scrubbed and painted. We had other friends who brought food and helped paint or clean. Almost all the carpets got ripped out and the wood floors underneath got a fresh coat of paint.

The barn was in a terrible state of neglect. Leon and my brother-in-law worked long days out there, cleaning out drains, repairing water leaks, cleaning up in general, plus taking care of our first batch of baby pigs- 1400 of them.

I packed up the trailer and took care of my little boys. I made food for the hard workers and tried to stay organized and rested. I really felt like I didn't do much at all compared to everyone else.

But with lots of help, we were able to move on August 19, 2006. Our furniture from the trailer didn't even come close to furnishing our big farm house. But we were settled and now this baby could be born. (Annika was born almost 4 weeks later.)

Leon went back to work at his full-time job. He worked long hours, then came home and took care of the pigs. We wonder sometimes how we managed those first several years.....

The boys just loved the farm. They explored and played outside all day long. We had a cement patio to ride trikes on. We had an old garage that quickly became their "shop" and all kinds of adventures were had in there. One of the first things they did was to dig a very large hole in the  middle of this garage. Of course, nobody knows why. The hole is still there. 

Over the years, we've made lots of improvements to this place. Leon has spent countless hours working in the pig barn, repairing things. We had a wall put in the huge 5 car garage so that the back part could be an insulated shop for Leon to work in.

And the house- I cried the first time we walked through it. It was so dirty and smelled like pigs, and it was just such a strange house! Two staircases, strange nooks and crannies, crooked floors, and nasty old windows.

The first winter we worked in the kitchen and added some cupboards. We hired someone to put a railing on the open stairway in the living room so my babies wouldn't fall down and break their heads. Leon put shelves in the door-less, shelf-less closets. He also put shelves in the damp, dark basement for my canned food.

We put carpet in the living room, on the stairs, and in the school room and girl's room. We painted the storage room and turned it into a tiny guest room. We replaced several windows. 

More recently, we jacked up the kitchen/dining room floor and put hardwood flooring in. We also repaired the front porch and tore out the rotten railing and replaced it with pillars.

New windows are on the agenda next.....!!!!!!!!!

The crazy thing is- I fell in love with this old house! When people advise us to tear it down and build new, (it was built in 1905) something inside of me gets a sick feeling. Tear down my house that has so much character? No way. 

This house is home to so many memories. This house that I didn't want to live in has now has become my cozy friend. This house that I finally have room to entertain guests in, host parties in, and so much more......

And now- a trip down memory lane.....



























It's been a wild ride, but I'm so grateful for this farm.


Tuesday, August 11, 2015

It's The Week Before School Starts....

...and all through this place,
this Mom is racing, 
It's like running a race.
There's a school room to clean, 
and books to arrange,
She's finding things
In places that are strange.
The cobwebs must leave,
The windows get scrubbed,
The stains will come out,
If we rub, rub, rub, rub.
The tomatoes need canning, 
The beans need to be picked,
As for those weeds,
They'll all get licked.
The book work must be caught up,
She promised her man, 
And if she accomplishes it,
He'll be her biggest fan.
The living room needs 
A deep cleaning too, 
The furniture must surely
Get moved around too.
The ceiling fans 
Haven't been cleaned for so long,
The only way through that,
Is by singing a song.
The kids have been hired,
To clean out the cupboards,
30 bucks later,
The job is covered.
And then there's this annual
Mom's Day Out in town,
Where this mom just shops
And takes time to sit down,
A pedicure, manicure,
Spoiled to the core,
Eating her lunch,
That she didn't work for.
Planning a schedule 
To accomplish the most,
Preparing for school, 
This Mom loves that the most.
Excitement is high,
We're all ready to learn,
To increase our knowledge,
For wisdom we yearn.
Only with God, 
Will we make it through,
The hard days, the fun ones,
The silly ones too.
There's really nothing
I'd rather do,
Than homeschool my kids,
And stay at home, too.

Happy 2015-2016 school year to you!






Monday, August 3, 2015

Summer Reflections

This has been a whirlwind of a summer. It's been full of vacations, and while we're home, working hard and fast to get ready to leave again. We have made so many good memories as a family this summer......

We spent 6 days in TN with Leon's family at a big house close to Pigeon Forge. What a wonderful time we had catching up on each other's lives, relaxing, eating good food, tubing, white-water rafting, driving through a scenic state park, and taking in a show at Dixie Stampede. The days flew by!




























Jamison celebrated his 12th birthday on July 2nd. He wanted to go bowling and eat at Texas Roadhouse.






Jamie chose shrimp for his birthday meal with black raspberry pie for dessert.

Here's a little bird he found one day, and it perched right on his shoulder.

And then we had our corn day.....(the dog was a real attraction distraction.)


We took off one evening to have a picnic back at our cabin.

 And another evening back at the cabin....


A camping trip with friends....


And a few other special pictures from the summer....



The boys have put in a lot of hours with their Dad this summer (even if I don't have pictures to prove it). I have thanked God for our farm countless times this summer. It really is a great place to raise a family!

The summer days are ticking down and we'll soon be back in school. This has been one of the best summers ever but it's also had some of our most difficult moments. Through all of it, God has been very close. Our lives can be ever so full of pain, but God gently leads us and He has given us so much peace. We can trust Him, no matter what.

I'm reading the book Storm by Jim Cymbala right now and it has encouraged me so much! He says, "Are we content to live without the reality of the presence of God, or will we seek Him for the spiritual renewal that will bring grace beyond our wildest dreams and much glory to God?" I'm all in.....I want that Presence in my life every day! God can do things in our lives beyond our wildest imaginations when we give Him the keys to our hearts......and relinquish our control. Have your way, Jesus.